Family

 

Family is not easy to maintain, it needs affection, love, relation, emotion, values, etc. Every house has the family indeed, we should take care of our family with all the responsibilities with all the respect. Family is not only parents and children, also cousins, in-laws, friends etc. Try to mingle the friends with the family and treat them like a family, they will be overwhelmed with the respect and value which we give them, and they will include with our family and treat us back like a family with the respect and value. Spend time with the family, we should learn balancing life between our personal and professional, give time to our members, go out, have fun, entertain them, love them.

Money does not matter in every moment, gain a family with love. Do not think about the money which spent on yesterday! Do not think about what we are spending for family in present, save money for future, money is not important, we are earning for our families, families are lifelong, but money is not. We can earn money now and later, but if we lost a person from the family, can we get them back!!

Do not go for egos and break the family and relationships. Sometimes a single word is enough to break the heart and that is it. Just sit and talk to each other in a polite way, behave with some manners. Make them to understand the situations you are facing, try to explain the problems you have, make them to understand what’s wrong with you at that moment, try to explain the blunder or a wrong thing which they made with you and what did not you liked in them at that scenario or at that moment, take time to talk to them.

It might not be easy, sometimes, it might not work, sometimes, it does not make sense, sometimes, they do not want to listen at all, sometimes, it does not matter to them, sometimes, they don’t want to give time, there might be different reasons but at least, did we give a try??

Make them to understand what pain you are baring, what is giving the pain? What are the struggles you are facing, at least you might get a small/little/simple solution then and there. We know people make fun of our struggles and they might feel happy with the problems which we are facing, just be happy at least, you are making happy someone, do not take it to heart, easy… It might not feel comfortable. But it’s OK...

If you do not like the conversation, just move away from there, ignore the conversation but not the person. Be kind to them, don’t be serious, make yourself busy on some or the other works to forget that movement which is making you angry and afterwards, try to reach them out later once you are free and talk freely, speak out, express yourself that what did not you liked about the topic or about the conversation and please them to not to repeat and just sorry for them.

We might have seen all these stuff in the movies and we feel good and emotion after watching these kinds of stories and we might or might not feel satisfied with the content, we might or might not feel comfortability. Simultaneously, everything comes in our minds which co-relates to that movie in our life, and we feel good or bad. Do not influence from movies, movies are completely different from real life and yes, they will narrate the movies with the real-life experiences. But leading life is not easy which is showing just like in the movies. If we want the things to happen just like that, a wonder or a magic must happen.

Everything has their own limits in our life, everybody has their own perspectives, everybody has their own illustrations, everyone has their own reasons, everyone has their own fantasies, everyone has their own dreams, etc and etc, bla, bla, bla…

Every human being is a sentimental fool, we have our family sentiments, we have our rights on our family, but we want individuality too, we want to give value and importance to us. But are we trusting them, are we giving values, are we giving individuality, are we giving importance, are we giving time, are we sorry, are we pleasing, are we, are we, are we…. A lot and a lot of questions will raise, but where is the answer?

Every problem has a solution, what if the solution takes you to the other problem and throw you in another disaster?

Every question has an answer, but what if the same answer gives a way to make other question and trouble you in anyway?

What if, there is no answer to your question which is troubling you?

Every individual and family have their own troubles and puzzles to solve, just try to make them clear in a proper way... Think twice and thrice before taking decisions. Problems and questions are just like passing clouds.

Easy to tell but hard to follow… Sacrificing oneself for the family is not bad, but it might hurt us too bad sometimes. Hurting ourselves for the sake of our family, taking pain for our family, etc. Just family matters and nothing else, you are a family man. Be strong, keep smiling and move away. But one thing, do not expect anything from anyone, if you are expecting something from your sacrifices, from your favours, you are making blunder out of it, finally you must face the consequences, you must be saddened and no one else.

At the end, they will support you in hard times. Lastly, be prepared to face the hard times alone, because who knows, no one might come to support you… Experience everything.

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