A Flying Kite without a THREAD

         

        You know what….!!!! Sometimes it is better to be a flying kite without a thread, I mean being alone. Whatever you want, you can do and no one is there to stop you, no one is there to ask you, no one is there to demand from you.

        But it feels hurt when there is no one to share our feelings, our pain, and our emotions. A pillow is our friend, when we want to cry. A pet animal is a stress-buster for a lonely person.

    Being in relationship, it makes our life very sweet and beautiful with love, with family, with bonding, with friends, etc. But in some cases it’s not that sweet, because we feel that it is stopping us to enjoy or to have fun in our life, it might be a family or might be a love which involves our responsibilities and our duties to perform to fulfill their wishes, their likes, their desires etc.

        It’s like, if we want few things, we need to leave something. It all depends on our priorities.
    In some cases we need to adjust where we don’t feel comfortable, we need to compromise in some cases, where we need to sacrifice few things. It might feel happy to adjust and compromise for the opposite person or to self but need to understand the feelings/pain what they are facing.

        A flying kite don’t know where it lands, a single/lonely person don’t know where his life goes and in what way it ends. It depends on the mind-set, way of thinking, etc… just like a flying kite flies where the air moves/flows.

        A smile on their face differs in different situations, a smile on their face with pain differs when a smile on their face with happiness.

        A tear rolls out of an eye in both the situations, in pain and in happiness. We call it as sad tears and happy tears.

        Sometimes being lonely is strength, it can make us to take wise and proper decisions very strongly. If a single and lonely person is in disturbed mind, he/she cannot concentrate on things and don’t even bother about such things, he/she will not care at all.

        Being alone, no need to have a fear of wrong people as a company, no heart breakings, sometimes you need a break to figure everything out. Sometimes it feels like, better not to talk with anyone about anything because not might be in every situation but in few situations, few people might take it in a wrong way or with wrong intention. And drag the small things then make it as a big issue, it feels like, what the hell…!!!! Why people see every small things with a magnifying glasses and make it bigger? What’s wrong..!

        A single/lonely person can win, if he/she has own control of his/her mind, they are not competing with any other, competing with themselves.

    The lonely person are kindest, all because they do not wish to see anyone else suffer the way they do.